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Wednesday, May 30, 2012

When it Comes to Attention, I am the Enemy by Gregg Krech - YouTube

When it Comes to Attention, I am the Enemy by Gregg Krech - YouTube





  by on Aug 24, 2010
An illuminating presentation on self-focused attention, particularly helpful for those coping with anxiety, depression or those simply wanting to improve their mindfulness skills.
http://www.todoinstitute.org/mindfulness-attention.html

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Tuesday, May 29, 2012

The ToDo Institute: Mindfulness, Procrastination, and Gratitude using Morita and Naikan Therapies

The ToDo Institute: Mindfulness, Procrastination, and Gratitude using Morita and Naikan Therapies


Welcome to the ToDo Institute! Here you will find a wealth of material on Alternative Methods of Mental Health such as Morita Therapy and Naikan from Japan. Although rooted in Eastern philosophy, these methods are integrated beautifully into our contemporary western society, providing balance, beauty and wisdom.

Morita Therapy represents the action element of Japanese psychology; Naikan represents the element of self-reflection. Together, they offer an alternative approach based on values such as mindfulness, purposeful living, gratitude and responsible action.

Most approaches to mental health in the West are rooted in European psychology. The principles presented here are quite different, originating in Japan and rooted in Asian tradition and philosophy. You'll find guidance on topics ranging from depression to procrastination. So please relax, take off your shoes (Japanese style) and come explore resources which blend the practical, the spiritual and the psychological.





Source:  http://www.todoinstitute.org/



Zen Master John Daido Loori


John Daido Loori


John Daido Loori, author, artist, Zen Master is the founder and abbot of Zen Mountain Monastery in Mount Tremper, New York. 

Under Daido Loori’s direction, Zen Mountain Monastery has grown to be one of the leading Zen monasteries in America, widely noted for its unique way of integrating art and Zen practice.

Daido Loori is also an award winning photographer and videographer, with dozens of exhibitions to his credit and a successful career in both commercial and art photography. 

He has had 54 one-person shows, and his work has been exhibited in 118 group shows both in the United States and abroad. 
His photographs have been published in leading photography magazines, including Aperture and Time Life Photography. 




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 http://www.johndaidoloori.org

 http://www.mro.org/zmm/aboutus/abbot.php


John Daido Loori
Religion Zen Buddhism
School Rinzai and Sōtō
Lineage Mountains and Rivers Order (part of White Plum Asanga)
Other name(s) Daido Loori
Dharma name(s) Muge Daido
Personal
Nationality American
Born June 14, 1931
Jersey City, NJ, United States
Died October 9, 2009 (aged 78)
Mount Tremper, NY, United States
Senior posting
Title Rōshi, abbot
Predecessor Taizan Maezumi
Successor Bonnie Myotai Treace, Geoffrey Shugen Arnold, Konrad Ryushin Marchaj
Religious career
Website www.mro.org/
johndaidoloori.org
 
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Quotes

"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference." 
~ Elie Wiesel



"If food and shelter give us life, the arts give us something to live for." Thomas H. Keane



 An animal's eyes have the power to speak a great language.
~ Martin Buber



Gratitude

Seven Principles for Cultivating Gratitude
By Gregg Krech
  1. Gratitude is independent of one's objective life circumstances;
  2. Gratitude is a function of attention;
  3. Entitlement makes gratitude impossible;
  4. When we continue to receive something on a regular basis, we typically begin to take it for granted;
  5. Our deepest sense of gratitude comes through grace -- the awareness that we have not earned, nor do we deserve what we have been given;
  6. Gratitude can be cultivated through sincere self-reflection; and
  7. The expression of gratitude (through words and deeds) has the affect of heightening our personal experience of gratitude.



Expressing Gratitude is Transformative

“ Expressing gratitude is transformative, just as transformative as expressing complaint.

Imagine an experiment involving two people. One is asked to spend ten minutes each morning and evening expressing gratitude (there is always something to be grateful for), while the other is asked to spend the same amount of time practicing complaining (there is, after all, always something to complain about).

One of the subjects is saying things like, "I hate my job. I can't stand this apartment. Why can't I make enough money? My spouse doesn't get along with me. That dog next door never stops barking and I just can't stand this neighborhood."

The other is saying things like, "I'm really grateful for the opportunity to work; there are so many people these days who can't even find a job. And I'm sure grateful for my health. What a gorgeous day; I really like this fall breeze." They do this experiment for a year.

Guaranteed, at the end of that year the person practicing complaining will have deeply reaffirmed all his negative "stuff" rather than having let it go, while the one practicing gratitude will be a very grateful person. . . Expressing gratitude can, indeed, change our way of seeing ourselves and the world."
                                                  -Roshi John Daido Loori



“We pray for our daily bread; bread gives us the strength to do so. ”
- R.H. Blyth


“If the only prayer you say your entire life is 'thank you' that would suffice.”
- Meister Eckhart


"Can you see the holiness in those things you take for granted--a paved road or a washing machine? 
If you concentrate on finding what is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul." 

- Rabbi Harold Kushner





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Morita Therapy

Morita Therapy is a purpose-centered, response oriented therapy from Japan, created in the 1930s by Dr. Shoma Morita.


Contents 



Background

Dr Shoma Morita (1874-1938) was a psychiatrist and department chair at Jikei University School of Medicine in Tokyo.

Morita's personal training in Zen Buddhism influenced his teachings, yet Morita therapy is not a Zen practice.


Morita formulated his psychotherapeutic principles in Japan as a program for the treatment of neurotic tendencies at the same time that attention in Europe was given to Dr. Sigmund Freud's discovery of the unconscious and Carl Jung's development of archetypes.


Underlying philosophy

Morita Therapy directs one's attention receptively to what reality brings in each moment. 

Simple acceptance of what is, allows for active responding to what needs doing.
Most therapies strive to reduce symptoms.
Morita therapy, however, aims at building character to enable one to take action responsively in life regardless of symptoms, natural fears, and wishes.
Character is determined by behavior, by what one does.
Dogmatic patterns of collapse are replaced with the flexibility to call upon courage and empowerment.
Decisions become grounded in purpose rather than influenced by the fluid flow of feelings.


In Morita Therapy, character is developed by cultivating mindfulness, knowing what is controllable and what is not controllable, and seeing what is so without attachment to expectations.
Knowing what one is doing, knowing what the situation is requiring, and knowing the relationship between the two are quintessential to self-validation, effective living, and personal fulfillment.
Character is developed as one moves from being feeling-centered to being purpose-centered.
A feeling-centered person attends to feelings to such an extent that the concern for self-protection reigns over decisions and perceptions. 


Given the human condition, change, pain, and pleasure are natural experiences.
Indeed, emotions are a rich type of experience and a valuable source of information.
Feelings are acknowledged even when what is to be done requires not acting on them. Constructive action is no longer put on hold in order to process or cope with symptoms or feelings.
The individual can focus on the full scope of the present moment as the guide for determining what needs to be done.


Trying to control the emotional self willfully by manipulative attempts is like trying to choose a number on a thrown die or to push back the water of the Kamo River upstream. Certainly, they end up aggravating their agony and feeling unbearable pain because of their failure in manipulating the emotions.


—Shoma Morita, M.D.

Ultimately, the successful student of Morita therapy learns to accept the internal fluctuations of thoughts and feelings and ground his behavior in reality and the purpose of the moment. Cure is not defined by the alleviation of discomfort or the attainment of some ideal feeling state (which the philosophy of this approach opposes), but by taking constructive action in one’s life which helps one to live a full and meaningful existence and not be ruled by one’s emotional state.






An Introduction to Morita Therapy Methods

Background

As noted above, “Morita Therapy” refers to a psychological treatment system that was developed by the Japanese psychiatrist Shoma Morita.
His groundbreaking work was first published in Japan in 1928.
Like Sigmund Freud’s works which were developed for the Austrian culture in an earlier time, pure Morita Therapy had its greatest applications to a Japanese culture almost one hundred years ago.


People from different times and cultures actually do think differently.
Human thought processes are not all universal within our species, but vary significantly depending upon by whom we are raised, and where we grow up and live.
Having said that, there are aspects of our humanity that do not change. People in 1920’s Japan had similar emotional responses to stress and life’s challenges as do modern-day Europeans.
The response of individuals from different times and cultures (and hence their treatment) must adapt to fit into the context of their daily lives.



Methods

Morita Therapy Methods (MTM) brought Morita’s original thinking to the west and adapted it to modern western minds and culture.
For example, the original Morita treatment process has the patient spend their first week of treatment isolated in a room without any outside stimulation—no books, no television, no therapy other than being alone with their own thoughts.
Modern-day benefits providers are unlikely to see the ancient wisdom of paying for people who are attempting to learn to better face the challenges of life, to spend a week alone sitting in a hospital bed.
Obviously, modifications to the original process that still remained consistent with the valuable, proven, underlying principles needed to be developed; the MTM approach is the culmination of that work.



Shinkeishitsu


The original Morita Therapy was developed for what was referred to back then as “anxiety-based disorders”.
Just as civilizations change through time, medical and psychological cultures evolve, and so do our diagnostic definitions.
What Dr. Morita defined back then as shinkeishitsu (an anxiety-based disorder), today has a much broader definition that considers not just anxiety, but life situations in which modern westerners find themselves.
Most of us at one time or another are living in a world of shinkeishitsu, where we become lost in a quagmire of stress, pain (physical, psychological, or both) and the aftermath of trauma (physical, psychological or both).


The shinkeishitsu phenomenon is a quagmire just like quicksand.
Sometimes we can escape its clutches alone and quickly.
Other times we sink if someone doesn’t extend a rescuing lifeline.
Depending on the situation, the depth of the quicksand, and the strength of the sinking person at that time, not just any life line will serve the purpose of facilitating the rescue.



Structure

MTM is structured for the person who needs a guide for self-rescue from the pain that life gives all of us at times.
It is not a cure-all for everyone. It is not easy.
Emancipation requires personal commitment and action.
MTM claims to help patients find, and use, a well of inner strength deep within themselves that enables them to make powerful changes in their life.


MTM is an amalgamation of Eastern treatment methods applied to the Western mind.
It is roughly divided into four basic areas of treatment.
In addition, adjunct areas of MTM designed to the patient’s well-being are also covered below.




The four areas of treatment

Phase one is the “rest phase”.
It is a period of learning to separate ourselves from the minute-by-minute barrage of the constant assault on our senses and thought processes by a loud and intrusive world.
We learn to turn off the television, close the door temporarily to demanding work, well-meaning friends, and yes, even family.
We use the solitude to meditate with simple, non-religious based meditation.
Through this simple meditation we learn to re-familiarize ourselves with the warm and healing peace that has been beaten out of us by work stress, the media, psychological and physical pain.
Yes, you can have profound meditation even if experiencing profound pain.


Phase two introduces us to “light and monotonous work that is conducted in silence”.
One of the keystones of this stage of self-treatment is journal writing.
Our thoughts and feelings come to us in indistinguishable waves and flood our minds.
Writing in our personal journals helps us learn to separate our thoughts from our feelings and define their different effects on our lives.
In this phase we also go outside… outside of ourselves and out of the house and begin a reconnection with nature.
We leave the solitude of Phase one and go out of doors.
We breathe the fresh air and feel the sun on our faces.
We walk. We walk and breathe.
We walk, breathe and reconnect with the world of nature that has been shut out of our lives by pain and stagnation for weeks, months, even years.
We move from darkness to light in both figurative and literal ways.


Phase three
is one of more strenuous work.
Dr. Morita had his patients engage in hard physical work outdoors.
This is what we call the “chopping wood” phase.
For people with physical injuries, it is the phase where you move from passive treatment given to you by others (i.e. chiropractic, massage and pain medicine) to learning to begin healing yourself though a stretch and strength oriented physical therapy program.
MTM incorporates moving from being treated to learning self-treatment in both the physical and psychological realms.
It is hard, it hurts, and it will be a challenge to persevere in the beginning, but if you are ever going to move from being the treated victim to being the recovering survivor this step must occur.


Depending upon the depth and nature of injury (of spirit, mind or body), Phase three can be short or long.
For some it becomes a part of daily life, forever.
Some pain resolves, some pain needs to be managed.
The beneficial aspect of this phase of treatment is that it also encourages the engagement of what we now understand is the right side of the brain.
The recovering survivor is encouraged to spend time in creating art—writing, painting, wood carving—whatever puts them into contact with the creative aspects of their humanity.


Phase four is when Morita would send patients outside the hospital setting.
They would apply what they had learned in the first three phases and use it to help them with the challenge of reintegration into the non-treatment world.
This is the phase where the patient learns to integrate a new lifestyle of meditation, physical activity, clearer thinking, more ordered living, and a renewed relationship with the natural world.
They are not returning to their former lifestyle.
Instead, they will integrate their “new self” into the imposed set of changes brought about by their trauma, pain and limitations.
As re-integration into the world outside of treatment brings with it some unanticipated challenges, the survivor returns to the materials they studied and perhaps even the counsel of their teacher to find coping skills that will allow them to progress further and further on the journey of recovery.






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Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Chuang-Tzu



The mind of the perfect man looks like a mirror – something that doesn’t lean forward or backward in its response to the world. It responds to the world but conceals nothing of its own. Therefore it is able to deal with the world without suffering pain.


~ Chuang-Tzu, Taoist thinker, century III or II b. C., Book of Chuang-Tzu



Thursday, May 3, 2012

THE FOUR NOBLE TRUTHS AND THE EIGHTFOLD PATH




1. Life means suffering.
To live means to suffer, because the human nature is not perfect and neither is the world we live in. During our lifetime, we inevitably have to endure physical suffering such as pain, sickness, injury, tiredness, old age, and eventually death; and we have to endure psychological suffering like sadness, fear, frustration, disappointment, and depression. Although there are different degrees of suffering and there are also positive experiences in life that we perceive as the opposite of suffering, such as ease, comfort and happiness, life in its totality is imperfect and incomplete, because our world is subject to impermanence. This means we are never able to keep permanently what we strive for, and just as happy moments pass by, we ourselves and our loved ones will pass away one day, too.


2. The origin of suffering is attachment.
The origin of suffering is attachment to transient things and the ignorance thereof. Transient things do not only include the physical objects that surround us, but also ideas, and -in a greater sense- all objects of our perception. Ignorance is the lack of understanding of how our mind is attached to impermanent things. The reasons for suffering are desire, passion, ardour, pursuit of wealth and prestige, striving for fame and popularity, or in short: craving and clinging. Because the objects of our attachment are transient, their loss is inevitable, thus suffering will necessarily follow. Objects of attachment also include the idea of a "self" which is a delusion, because there is no abiding self. What we call "self" is just an imagined entity, and we are merely a part of the ceaseless becoming of the universe.


3. The cessation of suffering is attainable.]
The cessation of suffering can be attained through nirodha. Nirodha means the unmaking of sensual craving and conceptual attachment. The third noble truth expresses the idea that suffering can be ended by attaining dispassion. Nirodha extinguishes all forms of clinging and attachment. This means that suffering can be overcome through human activity, simply by removing the cause of suffering. Attaining and perfecting dispassion is a process of many levels that ultimately results in the state of Nirvana. Nirvana means freedom from all worries, troubles, complexes, fabrications and ideas. Nirvana is not comprehensible for those who have not attained it.


4. The path to the cessation of suffering.
There is a path to the end of suffering - a gradual path of self-improvement, which is described more detailed in the Eightfold Path. It is the middle way between the two extremes of excessive self-indulgence (hedonism) and excessive self-mortification (asceticism); and it leads to the end of the cycle of rebirth. The latter quality discerns it from other paths which are merely "wandering on the wheel of becoming", because these do not have a final object. The path to the end of suffering can extend over many lifetimes, throughout which every individual rebirth is subject to karmic conditioning. Craving, ignorance, delusions, and its effects will disappear gradually, as progress is made on the path.


THE EIGHTFOLD PATH

1. Right View Wisdom


3. Right Speech Ethical Conduct



6. Right Effort Mental Development





The Noble Eightfold Path describes the way to the end of suffering, as it was laid out by Siddhartha Gautama.

It is a practical guideline to ethical and mental development with the goal of freeing the individual from attachments and delusions; and it finally leads to understanding the truth about all things.

Together with the Four Noble Truths it constitutes the gist of Buddhism.

Great emphasis is put on the practical aspect, because it is only through practice that one can attain a higher level of existence and finally reach Nirvana. The eight aspects of the path are not to be understood as a sequence of single steps, instead they are highly interdependent principles that have to be seen in relationship with each other.




1. Right View


Right view is the beginning and the end of the path, it simply means to see and to understand things as they really are and to realise the Four Noble Truth. As such, right view is the cognitive aspect of wisdom. It means to see things through, to grasp the impermanent and imperfect nature of worldly objects and ideas, and to understand the law of karma and karmic conditioning. Right view is not necessarily an intellectual capacity, just as wisdom is not just a matter of intelligence. Instead, right view is attained, sustained, and enhanced through all capacities of mind. It begins with the intuitive insight that all beings are subject to suffering and it ends with complete understanding of the true nature of all things. Since our view of the world forms our thoughts and our actions, right view yields right thoughts and right actions.



2. Right Intention


While right view refers to the cognitive aspect of wisdom, right intention refers to the volitional aspect, i.e. the kind of mental energy that controls our actions. Right intention can be described best as commitment to ethical and mental self-improvement. Buddha distinguishes three types of right intentions: 1. the intention of renunciation, which means resistance to the pull of desire, 2. the intention of good will, meaning resistance to feelings of anger and aversion, and 3. the intention of harmlessness, meaning not to think or act cruelly, violently, or aggressively, and to develop compassion.



3. Right Speech


Right speech is the first principle of ethical conduct in the eightfold path. Ethical conduct is viewed as a guideline to moral discipline, which supports the other principles of the path. This aspect is not self-sufficient, however, essential, because mental purification can only be achieved through the cultivation of ethical conduct. The importance of speech in the context of Buddhist ethics is obvious: words can break or save lives, make enemies or friends, start war or create peace. Buddha explained right speech as follows: 1. to abstain from false speech, especially not to tell deliberate lies and not to speak deceitfully, 2. to abstain from slanderous speech and not to use words maliciously against others, 3. to abstain from harsh words that offend or hurt others, and 4. to abstain from idle chatter that lacks purpose or depth. Positively phrased, this means to tell the truth, to speak friendly, warm, and gently and to talk only when necessary.



4. Right Action


The second ethical principle, right action, involves the body as natural means of expression, as it refers to deeds that involve bodily actions. Unwholesome actions lead to unsound states of mind, while wholesome actions lead to sound states of mind. Again, the principle is explained in terms of abstinence: right action means 1. to abstain from harming sentient beings, especially to abstain from taking life (including suicide) and doing harm intentionally or delinquently, 2. to abstain from taking what is not given, which includes stealing, robbery, fraud, deceitfulness, and dishonesty, and 3. to abstain from sexual misconduct. Positively formulated, right action means to act kindly and compassionately, to be honest, to respect the belongings of others, and to keep sexual relationships harmless to others. Further details regarding the concrete meaning of right action can be found in the Precepts.



5. Right Livelihood


Right livelihood means that one should earn one's living in a righteous way and that wealth should be gained legally and peacefully. The Buddha mentions four specific activities that harm other beings and that one should avoid for this reason: 1. dealing in weapons, 2. dealing in living beings (including raising animals for slaughter as well as slave trade and prostitution), 3. working in meat production and butchery, and 4. selling intoxicants and poisons, such as alcohol and drugs. Furthermore any other occupation that would violate the principles of right speech and right action should be avoided.



6. Right Effort


Right effort can be seen as a prerequisite for the other principles of the path. Without effort, which is in itself an act of will, nothing can be achieved, whereas misguided effort distracts the mind from its task, and confusion will be the consequence. Mental energy is the force behind right effort; it can occur in either wholesome or unwholesome states. The same type of energy that fuels desire, envy, aggression, and violence can on the other side fuel self-discipline, honesty, benevolence, and kindness. Right effort is detailed in four types of endeavours that rank in ascending order of perfection: 1. to prevent the arising of unarisen unwholesome states, 2. to abandon unwholesome states that have already arisen, 3. to arouse wholesome states that have not yet arisen, and 4. to maintain and perfect wholesome states already arisen.



7. Right Mindfulness


Right mindfulness is the controlled and perfected faculty of cognition. It is the mental ability to see things as they are, with clear consciousness. Usually, the cognitive process begins with an impression induced by perception, or by a thought, but then it does not stay with the mere impression. Instead, we almost always conceptualise sense impressions and thoughts immediately. We interpret them and set them in relation to other thoughts and experiences, which naturally go beyond the facticity of the original impression. The mind then posits concepts, joins concepts into constructs, and weaves those constructs into complex interpretative schemes. All this happens only half consciously, and as a result we often see things obscured. Right mindfulness is anchored in clear perception and it penetrates impressions without getting carried away. Right mindfulness enables us to be aware of the process of conceptualisation in a way that we actively observe and control the way our thoughts go. Buddha accounted for this as the four foundations of mindfulness: 1. contemplation of the body, 2. contemplation of feeling (repulsive, attractive, or neutral), 3. contemplation of the state of mind, and 4. contemplation of the phenomena.



8. Right Concentration


The eighth principle of the path, right concentration, refers to the development of a mental force that occurs in natural consciousness, although at a relatively low level of intensity, namely concentration. Concentration in this context is described as one-pointedness of mind, meaning a state where all mental faculties are unified and directed onto one particular object. Right concentration for the purpose of the eightfold path means wholesome concentration, i.e. concentration on wholesome thoughts and actions. The Buddhist method of choice to develop right concentration is through the practice of meditation. The meditating mind focuses on a selected object. It first directs itself onto it, then sustains concentration, and finally intensifies concentration step by step. Through this practice it becomes natural to apply elevated levels concentration also in everyday situations.




Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Monkey Quotes

A Barrel of Monkeys 
 
To do like the monkey, get the chestnuts out of the fire with the cat's paw.
~ French proverb
 Sock Monkey Chair
By Hazel and Melvin’s Room owner, Rebecca Yaker.
Photo by Ben Millett



Monkeys as Judges of Art, 1889
By Gabriel Cornelius von Max, 1840-1915.

 
Fable, circa 1570-1575.
By El Greco





A Flying Monkey of Burlington, Vermont
Sculpture by Steve Larrabee
Photo by Fred G. Hill



The Monkey Painter, 1833
By Alexandre-Gabriel Decamps



Monkeys in the Jungle
By Henri Rousseau (Henri Rousseau lesson plans)



Have you heard the saying that if you gave a hundred monkeys typewriters, that eventually they would type a line of Shakespeare?
Here's some info and quotes for your amusement:

From Wikipedia: "The infinite monkey theorem states that a monkey hitting keys at random on a typewriter keyboard for an infinite amount of time will almost surely type a given text, such as the complete works of William Shakespeare.

In this context, "almost surely" is a mathematical term with a precise meaning, and the "monkey" is not an actual monkey, but a metaphor for an abstract device that produces a random sequence of letters ad infinitum. The theorem illustrates the perils of reasoning about infinity by imagining a vast but finite number, and vice versa. The probability of a monkey exactly typing a complete work such as Shakespeare's Hamlet is so tiny that the chance of it occurring during a period of time of the order of the age of the universe is minuscule, but not zero."

Of course, people have spin-offs of this theory:

“I heard someone tried the monkeys-on-typewriters bit trying for the plays of W. Shakespeare, but all they got was the collected works of Francis Bacon.”
Bill Hirst

“We've heard that a million monkeys at a keyboard could produce the Complete Works of Shakespeare; now, thanks to the Internet, we know this is not true.”
Robert Wilensky

"Ford? There's an infinite number of monkeys outside who want to talk to us about this script for 'Hamlet' they've worked out.”
Douglas Adams, author of The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

"Dilbert writes a poem and presents it to Dogbert:
DOGBERT: I once read that given infinite time, a thousand monkeys with typewriters would eventually write the complete works of Shakespeare.
DILBERT: But what about my poem?
DOGBERT: Three monkeys, ten minutes."
Scott Adams, cartoonist

“I heard that if you locked William Shakespeare in a room with a typewriter for long enough, he'd eventually write all the songs by the Monkeys.”




Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Search Your Yeart

"The art of peace begins with you."  
-  Ueshiba Sensei

Life is like that...

Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.
-- Theodore Isaac



Life is indeed difficult, partly because of the real difficulties we must overcome in order to survive, and partly because of our own innate desire to always do better, to overcome new challenges, to self-actualize. Happiness is experienced largely in striving towards a goal, not in having attained things, because our nature is always to want to go on to the next endeavor.
-- Albert Ellis


You're alive. Do something. The directive in life, the moral imperative was so uncomplicated. It could be expressed in single words, not complete sentences. It sounded like this: Look. Listen. Choose. Act.
-- Barbara Hall, A Summons to New Orleans, 2000 


The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.
-- Ben Stein


Man is born to live, not to prepare for life.
-- Boris Pasternak (1890 - 1960), Doctor Zhivago, 1958 


Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious.
-- Brendan Gill


 Life is a foreign language; all men mispronounce it.
-- Christopher Morley (1890 - 1957) 


Life is full of surprises and and serendipity. Being open to unexpected turns in the road is an important part of success. If you try to plan every step, you may miss those wonderful twists and turns. Just find your next adventure-do it well, enjoy it-and then, not now, think about what comes next.
-- Condoleeza Rice 



In matters of self-control as we shall see again and again, speed kills. But a little friction really can save lives.
-- Daniel Akst, We Have Met the Enemy: Self-Control in an Age of Excess, 2011


When we exercise self-control on a given occasion, we win for ourselves a little credibility we can rely on the next time around. Pretty soon we develop a reputation to ourselves that we want badly to uphold. With each test that we meet, our resolve gains momentum, fueled by the fear that we may succumb and establish a damaging precedent for our own weakness.
-- Daniel Akst, We Have Met the Enemy: Self-Control in an Age of Excess, 2011 


Life is a thing that mutates without warning, not always in enviable ways. All part of the improbable adventure of being alive, of being a brainy biped with giant dreams on a crazy blue planet.
-- Diane Ackerman, One Hundred Names for Love: A Stroke, A Marriage, and the Language of Healing, 2011 


The purpose of life is to fight maturity.
-- Dick Werthimer 


Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song,
A medley of extemporanea;
And love is a thing that can never go wrong;
And I am Marie of Romania.
-- Dorothy Parker (1893 - 1967), Not So Deep as a Well (1937)

It's not true that life is one damn thing after another; it is one damn thing over and over.
-- Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892 - 1950)


Life is just one damned thing after another.
-- Elbert Hubbard (1856 - 1915) 


Life is something that happens when you can't get to sleep.
-- Fran Lebowitz (1950 - )


Life is something that everyone should try at least once.
--Henry J. Tillman 


Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome.
-- Isaac Asimov (1920 - 1992) 


Life is difficult and complicated and beyond anyone's total control, and the humility to know that will enable you to survive its vicissitudes.
-- J. K. Rowling, Harvard Commencement Address, 2008


Life is a long lesson in humility.
--James M. Barrie (1860 - 1937) 


He only earns his freedom and existence who daily conquers them anew.
--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832) 


Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
-- John Lennon (1940 - 1980), "Beautiful Boy"

In real life, however, you don't react to what someone did; you react only to what you think she did, and the gap between action and perception is bridged by the art of impression management. If life itself is but what you deem it, then why not focus your efforts on persuading others to believe that you are a virtuous and trustworthy cooperator?
-- Jonathan Haidt, The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom, 2005 


The lessons this life has planted in my heart pertain more to caring than crops, more to Golden Rule than gold, more to the proper choice than to the popular choice.
Kirby Larson, Hattie Big Sky, 2006 



Life ain't like books. Books got somebody writin' 'em and tryin' to entertain ya. Life is more like set of Legos. Unless you take care of 'em, you lose a few pieces and you end up steppin' on 'em with bare feet. You gotta take care of your life.
Laura Moncur (1969 - ), Merriton: 35 Minutes Away From Home, 02-29-12


Nature has invented reproduction as a mechanism for life to move forward. As a life force that passes right through us and makes us a link in the evolution of life.
Louis Schwartzberg, TED, the hidden beauty of pollination, March 2011


Life is fickle; the fair man doesn't invariably win.
Mark Hodder, The Strange Affair of Spring Heeled Jack 
(Burton & Swinburne in), 2010


The secret of a good life is to have the right loyalties and hold them in the right scale of values.
Norman Thomas (1884 - 1968) 



Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious.
Brenda Gill


The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.
Ben Stein


The unexamined life is not worth living.
Socrates


The goal of life is living in agreement with nature.
-- Zeno


Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.
-- Hans Christian


When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me."
-- Erma Bombeck


I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.
--- Elwyn Brooks White